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2-Day: Healing from Toxic Relationships: Help Your Clients Recover from Gaslighting, Narcissism, and Emotional Abuse


Speaker:
Stephanie Sarkis, PhD, NCC, DCMHS, LMHC
Duration:
Approx. 12 Hours
Copyright:
Nov 10, 2022
Publisher:
PESI Inc.
Product Code:
RNV059011
Media Type:
DVD - Also available: Digital Seminar | Live Webinar  2

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Description

Toxic relationships come in all types— romantic partners, business partners, parents, siblings, friends…

and everyone, at some point in their lives, has experienced a toxic relationship.

As a therapist you’ll encounter at least one client a month who is preparing to leave or has left a toxic relationship. They’re emotionally fragile, so being well-educated on how to provide the best care for your client is a must - as well as how to deal with your own feelings of frustration when your client returns to the toxic relationship.

Stephanie Sarkis PhD is the author of the best-selling books Gaslighting: Recognize Manipulative and Emotionally Abusive People— and Break Free and Toxic Relationships: Help Your Clients Recover from Gaslighting, Narcissism, and Emotional Abuse.

Watch Dr. Sarkis, for this LIVE two-day webinar where she shows you, through evidence-based practice: trauma-informed therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, solution-focused therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, cognitive-behavioral therapy, case studies and her 20 years of experience, how to help clients rebuild their lives after the trauma of a toxic relationship:

  • Knowing what to do when your client gets “hooked” on the cycle of abuse & reconciliation
  • Client who continues to seek out similar toxic relationships
  • Moving on without closure
  • Letting go of anger and self-blame
  • Establishing boundaries
  • Practicing self-care
  • Grief – working through the loss
  • Rebuilding emotionally healthy relationships

Don’t miss out on getting answers to an all-too common but underdiscussed personality type!

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Author, Psychotherapist


Stephanie Moulton Sarkis, PhD, NCC, DCMHS, LMHC, is a psychotherapist specializing in narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, anxiety, and ADHD. She is the author of eight books and one workbook, including the best-selling Healing from Toxic Relationships: 10 Essential Steps to Recover from Gaslighting, Narcissism, and Emotional Abuse and Gaslighting: Recognize Manipulative and Emotionally Abusive People – and Break Free. Dr. Sarkis is a National Certified Counselor, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, American Mental Health Counselors Association Diplomate (Clinical Mental Health Specialist in Child and Adolescent Counseling), and a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family and Circuit Mediator. She has been in private practice for 22 years. She is a senior contributor for Forbes and is also a contributor to Psychology Today. She is the host of the “Talking Brains” podcast. She is based in Tampa, Florida. You can visit her website at www.stephaniesarkis.com.

 

Speaker Disclosures:
Financial: Dr. Stephanie Moulton Sarkis maintains a private practice. She serves as a contributor to Forbes, The Huffington Post, and Psychology Today and is an advisory panel member for Evergreen Certifications. Dr. Sarkis is a facilitator for Collaborative Divorce. She receives royalties as a published author. She receives a speaking honorarium, recording, and book royalties from PESI, Inc. She has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.
Non-financial: Dr. Stephanie Moulton Sarkis is a professional expert for Understood.org, part of the National Center for Learning Disabilities. She is a member of the Attention Deficit Disorder Association, American Mental Health Counselors Association, Children and Adults with Attention Deficit Disorder, and the National Board for Certified Counselors.


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Objectives

  1. Employ evidence-based practice from trauma-informed therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, solution-focused therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, and cognitive-behavioral therapy to assist clients in rebuilding their lives.
  2. Assess suicidality effectively and treat it through integrative psychodynamic psychotherapy and dialectical behavior therapy.  
  3. Determine a diagnosis of complex PTSD through trauma-informed interviewing skills. 
  4. Evaluate the research-based benefits of altruism through volunteering in increasing self-esteem and self-efficacy.
  5. Analyze how parental alienation further traumatizes clients and their children.
  6. Build 10 tools to help clients reestablish healthy boundaries via research-based activities.
  7. Utilize clinical strategies to uncover and heal client’s family-of-origin trauma.
  8. Reduce symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder through trauma-informed therapeutic techniques.
  9. Prescribe individualized therapeutic care to improve client engagement when discussing experience of abuse.
  10. Determine level of family-of-origin pathology in order to inform choice of treatment interventions.
  11. Demonstrate knowledge of vicarious trauma for purposes of reducing clinician burnout.
  12. Diagnose complex post-traumatic stress disorder in a clinical setting.

Outline

Neurochemical Cycle of Abuse: Every Day is a Recovery

  • Harder to leave when trauma bonding has occurred
  • Abuse = cortisol levels and adrenaline increases
  • Reconciliation = dopamine and oxytocin increase
  • Client’s brain can get addicted to this cycle
  • Withdrawal and/or reframing grief after the relationship (i.e., drug withdrawal)

Phases of Toxic Relationships – Cycle of Abuse

  • Attachment Style – Predictor of abuse vulnerability
  • Idealizing - Relationship begins - seems too good to be true, pressured commitment
  • Devaluing - Toxic person starts emotional abuse, eventually ramps up into physical abuse
  • Discarding - Client discovers toxic person’s infidelity, “financial cheating” or toxic person leaves

Results of Toxic Relationships

  • Complicated grief
  • Questioning what was “real” in the Relationship
  • Complex PTSD
  • Dissociative episodes
  • Brief psychotic episode
  • Dissociative identity disorder
  • Suicidality
  • Case study: Sarah, a 52-year-old female who is experiencing complex grief as a result of an abusive family of origin and abusive relationship

Returning to the Toxic Relationship

  • Leave toxic relationships at least three times before they leave for good or are killed
  • Abusers “hoover” victims to get their “narcissistic supply”
  • Therapists may start “fixing” rather than supporting client – codependent behavior

Solution-Focused Therapy to Relearn Self-Care

  • Creating future plans
  • Emotional and physical safety
  • ADL’s – in extreme cases
  • Reconnecting with healthcare (infidelity, etc)
  • Seeking injunction – restraining order
  • Reframing self-care as a necessity rather than a luxury
  • Case study: James, a 53-year-old male relearning basic life skills that were lost as a result of severe abuse and depression

Trauma-Informed Therapy to Break Free from Codependence

  • Multicultural therapy’s view that codependence is a culture-bound term
  • Multi-cultural implication – divorce, religious, traditional gender roles/abuse
  • Determining clients “secondary gain” from codependent behavior

Toxic Family of Origin

  • Abuse can be intergenerational
  • Family of origin substance abuse
  • “Splitting” - golden child and a scapegoat child
  • Siblings may maintain dysfunctional roles into adulthood
  • Using genograms to identify client’s familial behavior patterns
  • Transgenerational family therapy
  • Caregiving and elderly toxic parents

Existential Therapy Tools to Manage Suicidality

  • Best way to assess for suicidality according to research
  • Myths about suicidal behavior
  • Hidden signs of suicidality
  • Evidence-based treatment of suicidality resulting from abuse
  • Case study: Emma, a 17-year-old who has ended an abusive relationship

Coparenting with a Toxic Personality

  • Parental alienation
  • Using detailed parenting plan
  • Resources available - parent coordinator, family law attorney (some do pro bono work)
  • Communicate via a coparenting app
  • Case study: Ian, a 48-year-old who is learning how to coparent with their ex-partner who has been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder.

DBT & Grief Therapy Techniques to Redefine Closure

  • Toxic person will not give closure
  • Toxic people keep exes and friends “in rotation”
  • Helping clients find their own closure
  • Forgiveness is not necessary for closure
  • Dangers of pushing an agenda of forgiveness on clients
  • Sometimes closure is not possible
  • Clients can have fulfilling lives without closure or forgiveness

Reconnecting with Trusted Friends and Family

  • Reassessing emotional health of client’s loved ones
  • Client’s level of disclosure about the abuse to friends and family – how much is too much
  • Case study: Jimmy, a 28-year-old male reconnecting with family after going no-contact with his mother

ACT & Trauma-Focused Techniques to Help Client Forgive Themselves

  • Forgiving can be a continual process
  • Empty chair and writing techniques
  • CBT – changing inner dialogue (to non-violent communication)
  • Altruism as pathway to healing volunteerism – increase self-esteem and self-concept

The Power of Language in Session

  • When to refer to a relationship as “abusive”
  • Go at same pace of your client
  • Ask client what words they prefer
  • Some words can be triggers
  • Case Study: Sheila, a 38-year-old mother of two who feels she is the cause of the difficulties in her marriage

Trauma-Informed and Solution Focused Therapy - Prepare for Life After a Toxic Relationship

  • Helping clients identify signs of a healthy person
  • Addressing client’s concerns about a healthy relationship feeling “boring”
  • Addiction to the excitement of a toxic relationship
  • Reviewing client’s progress

TIPS for Therapists

  • Attend regular therapy sessions and clinical supervision
  • Beware of client’s experiences triggering your trauma
  • Expect to be contacted by abuser
  • You may be involved in litigation
  • Protecting yourself and your practice
  • Look for signs of burnout
  • Practice proactive self-care

Target Audience

  • Mental health professionals who specialize in women’s issues, work in domestic violence shelters, work with LGBTQIA+ clients, marriage and family therapists, and therapists that work in private practice, group settings, inpatient, and at schools.
  • Members of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, American Psychological Association, American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, and American Mental Health Counseling Association would benefit.

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