Tammy Nelson is one of today’s most in-demand and knowledgeable relationship experts, and that’s why we’ve asked her to join us for this exclusive free webinar where she’ll provide her latest insights to help therapists throughout the world.
Sadly, the models that most of us were taught for treating affairs have done little to help our clients.
That’s because these methods focused too much on the surface issues of affairs and how to achieve forgiveness … instead of dealing with the deeper layers that lead to true recovery.
The good news is that, thanks to decades of research and experience with infidelity, we now have the insight to truly be effective in healing betrayal trauma.
Now, I invite you to join me in this exclusive free training, where I’ll share the most up-to-date knowledge and skills you need to move beyond the victim/perpetrator model, so you can confidently guide your clients through the intense feelings of anger, guilt, shame, disconnection, and mistrust that are so common with these cases.
In this unique and completely free training, you’ll discover:
- The three stages of recovery that lead to long-term healing
- A step-by-step approach for restoring trust in relationships
- Specific skills for managing countertransference, issues of morality, and therapist triggers
- Key building blocks to overcome attachment trauma and restore emotional and physical intimacy
- Guidance to determine if it's better for the partners to stay or split
Plus, you’ll get access to free handouts that outline the exact steps and dialogue to use with partners at each step of the healing process.
You’ll walk away from this training with a clear roadmap to work with affairs, so you never have to feel anxious or unprepared again!
I look forward to you joining me.
- Tammy Nelson, PhD, founder of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute
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Moving Past the Trauma of Betrayal and Infidelity
Join Tammy Nelson for step-by-step modules filled with videos and case examples that illustrate the varieties of affairs – as well as ways you can offer healing and erotic recovery. You’ll get unique insight into topics including narcissism, second adolescence, parallel love relationships, online affairs, pornography, sex addiction and emotional infidelity and their effect on sexuality, intimacy and emotional connection.
- Why do people cheat?
- The types of Affairs that present in treatment
- What is Infidelity? Three Parts of an affair
- Countertransference and the role of the third in treatment
- What is betrayal trauma?
- What is collusion and bias and secondary gain?
- Individual integrative therapy
- Crisis/realization, Insight/reevaluate, Vision/renegotiate
- What is erotic recovery? Pleasure heals trauma
- Treating the cheating partner
- Video case example
- Erotic shutdown
- What is second adolescence?
- Coping with reactivity
- Lean in lean out – the dilemma of ending an affair
- Trust, safety and the trap of forgiveness
- Implicit vs explicit monogamy
- Decrease rumination/blame/projection
- Micro and Macro behaviors in treatment
- Video case example
- Handling Dishonesty
- Vulnerability cycle
- Long Term Monogamy Plan
- Future Treatment Recommendations
Psychotherapy Networker's
Moving Past the Trauma of Betrayal and Infidelity
" At a time when life can feel so murky and
chaotic, along comes Tammy Nelson with guidance that is crisp and clear as it is hopeful and
realistic. "
— Esther Perel, NYT bestselling author world-renowned expert on working with
relationships
" Tammy Nelson is a master therapist who can help
you find hope and opportunity, even in the multiple crises caused by an affair.
"
— Gina Ogden, PhD, LMFT, author of The Return of Desire and The Heart &
Soul of Sex
" I can think of no better guide to lead couples
through the journey of intimacy than Tammy Nelson. "
— Ian Kerner, PhD, sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of She
Comes First
" The New Monogamy sets Tammy Nelson apart from many
other therapists. She doesn't believe affairs simply involve a pathetic victim and an
arrogant perpetrator―and that's why she can actually help couples navigate this difficult
challenge. "
— Marty Klein, PhD, author of Sexual Intelligence
" Many clinicians refer out for sex therapy, but
Tammy Nelson provides wonderful resources that will help all clinicians feel better prepared to
address sex, sexuality and pleasure with clients. She is a gift to our field, she is a pioneer
in the work of understanding couple sexuality and ethical non-monogamy. "
— Brittany Edge, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice, a relationship expert and international speaker, an author, a faculty member and teacher with a Doctorate in Philosophy in Clinical Sexology. She is a Board Certified Sexologist, a Diplomate of the American Board of Sexologists, a Licensed Professional Counselor, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Registered Art Therapist, a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor, a Certified Imago Relationship therapist and an Advanced Imago Clinician.
Dr. Tammy is the author of several books including Open Monogamy: A Guide to Co-Creating Your Ideal Relationship Agreement (2021), Integrative Sex & Couples Therapy: A Therapist's Guide to New and Innovative Approaches (2020), The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity (2013), Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together (2008), and What's Eating You?: A Workbook for Anorexia and Bulimia (2004). She is also a TEDx speaker, host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex, and Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute.
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Tammy Nelson is one of today’s most in-demand and knowledgeable relationship experts, and that’s why we’ve asked her to join us for this exclusive free webinar where she’ll provide her latest insights to help therapists throughout the world.
Our focus is on telling the stories of psychotherapy and being a place where clinicians of all licenses and backgrounds who practice psychotherapy can keep up on what's happening in the field, hear captivating stories from colleagues on what's really happening in their practices, learn through CE trainings from the best in the field, and enjoy the most celebrated annual gathering of psychotherapists in the world each year in March in Washington, D.C.!
By attending this free training, you’ll have already completed the first module of the program and will get access to an exclusive discount for the first cohort.
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Moving Past the Trauma of Betrayal and Infidelity